Last night my good husband took me to a Sara Bareilles concert. This is because I told him that this would be the perfect Valentine's date and it was my turn to choose, and no, we're not going to an action flick for Valentine's, even if it has been a while since we saw a movie. (In all fairness, though, the last movie we saw was "Juno" which does not qualify as a guy movie in any respect. So, just so you know, he is a good husband more than once a year....)
For any uniformed readers out there, Sara Bareilles sings "Love Song" which is her first big hit, but is not a love song at all. About a month or so ago, I couldn't get the song out of my head, so I decided to get online and download it so I could sing more than the two lines of it that I knew so far. As I perused her website, I noticed that she was coming in concert to Provo, Utah, which was in itself too good to be true, being only ten minutes away. But even better than that, to a little tiny venue called "Velour" which would surely provide the intimate live music setting that would be perfect for a romantic evening out. And tickets were cheap. And I had already fallen in love with her music. So, what more could you want? We had to go.
So this aforementioned tiny venue somehow has defied all fire code laws by having an extra emergency exit or something, because it was standing room only, and packed to the hilt. Mostly with college girls, then young couples, and a dappling of older marrieds who, like us, were probably there because the wife convinced the husband it was her turn to choose what would constitute a romantic date night. I'm not saying which group we fit into--I'm hoping no one can tell yet. Anyway, the point is, it was a small space, but lots of people and lots of energy.
Sara was great. She has an amazing voice--so in control and easy to listen to. I totally soaked it up. I enjoyed every minute, even if I was worried about tapping my toe for fear I would step on someone else's. (Not really, we just all tapped and swayed in unison, so it worked out fine.) She is fun, too. She has an easy conversational manner with the crowd, and is humbly grateful for an audience who loves her. And love her we did. Isn't there just something awesome about immersing yourself in a live music experience? Listening to audio files is great. I love cleaning the kitchen to Coldplay or Beatles, or running to Destiny's Child's "Survivor" and All-American Rejects' "Move Along." But being there while the music is being made--there is something about participating in the creation of a beautiful thing, even if that participation is as simple as being present to listen. And I have to say it is also great to be that up close and personal with the musician. Stadium concerts are fine, but this was the perfect setting for her kind of bluesy, soulful music.
Speaking of participating in making music, it takes me back to my days of school choir and band. You probably won't believe it when I say this, but in seventh grade I was a member of an actually not bad band. We had a great teacher, Mr. Bowring. We practiced hard and were competitive both amongst ourselves for chair positions, as well as with other schools. I can still remember sitting on stage during a concert at the high school. I can't remember for sure the song we were playing, but the magic was there as we all came together on a crescendo towards the climax of the song. The timpani came in on a roll, then a symbol crash--wow! I felt chills. It was the first time I felt that kind of thrill, being a part of one synergetic whole. I moved soon afterwards, to schools where band programs were no longer thrilling, but I got to be a part of some quite good choirs, including a multi-school honor choir which was also a great experience.
I also love playing piano, and find that it is one of my best creative and therapeutic outlets. It is such a great way to relax and reconnect with my whole self, instead of the fragmented pieces I sometimes become. Nothing else can mellow me out and lift my mood the way playing piano can.
Isn't music amazing? I think it is wonderful. It is obvious why there are musical instruments and vocal singing in every culture. To me, music is the ultimate form of self-expression. Everyone loves music in some form or another. There is no more powerful way of communicating emotion. It can give cathartic release to sadness; it can give voice to prayerful praise; it can race with joy and triumph; it can calm fears and send babes into peaceful slumber. It can unite families, congregations, audiences, even nations. Music is a blessing from heaven. And I am thankful. Do I hear an amen? :)
One other cool thing about music is that it is all about sharing. And not just sharing time or talents, but sharing a part of oneself. It is a vulnerable spot to put yourself in, singing or playing for an audience, however large or small. I am really glad there are musicians who are willing to risk it. Sure, they may end up with fame and fortune, but there is a better chance that they will not. And when it becomes about the money, the music is no longer so magical. To be inspiring, it has to be heartfelt. Sara Bareilles' motto is, "I do it for love." It is apparent that she really does. So do musicians, music educators, music therapists, seventh grade band members, high school choirs, and even second grade piano students the world over. So keep making music, people! Let's all do it for love.